by

Alene Gabriel

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Blue Sky Coaching LLC EMPOWERING OTHERS TO CREATE THE LIVES THEY WANT TO LEAD

Do It Yourself

 

"I am not afraid of storms for I am learning to sail my own ship." (Louisa May Alcott)

 

To make one's own way through difficulties is a formidable task. Most of us would choose the easier, softer way of calling in a plumber, or pest control expert, or some other craftsman to provide a quick and efficient solution to our problems.

 

Doing it yourself is often neither quick nor efficient. There is a reason for describing a 12” adjustable wrench as a "knuckle buster." The wrench slips and slams into one's hand. Yelps of pain and inappropriate language often ensue. We wonder, as sweat drips into our eyes, why we chose the "do it yourself" approach. But if we persist in our "trial and error" efforts, we often discover that certain tasks can be done, and that we have more abilities then we considered.

 

When we make the effort to solve our own problems, we receive several rewards. Not only is the leaky faucet repaired, the confidence in our own abilities is fortified. We begin to trust that we "have what it takes" to make good decisions, solve difficult puzzles, and navigate clearly through confusing or troubling situations. We also build stamina to continue our efforts even when the obstacles seem insurmountable. Sailing one's own ship is a good thing. Set your course, and may the wind always be at your back.